Astrology: a meaningful way to understand your love stories?
August 4, 2025
You are experiencing an intense, beautiful, or troubling love story.
You feel strong emotions, confusion, or an attraction you can't explain.
You have many questions:
Why do certain patterns repeat in your life?
Why do you always attract the same type of person?
Why can’t you feel completely fulfilled?
What is missing for you to be truly happy?
What if astrology could help you gain clarity to understand your love stories?
Not by predicting your romantic future (even though it can give you some interesting dates ☻).
But by offering you a symbolic and deep reading of your way of loving, of receiving love, and of living the relationship.
To love is also to know oneself.
Your natal chart reveals your emotional language
In astrology, your natal chart acts like an inner map.
It reveals how you love, what you expect from a relationship, what touches you, reassures you, attracts you… or drives you away.
Here are some key points to observe:
The Moon
It symbolizes your emotional needs. It’s the fuel of your inner world. For example:
A Moon in Cancer needs tenderness and emotional security, with frequent reassurance.
A Moon in Aquarius will rather seek emotional freedom and intellectual stimulation.
Venus
It reveals your way of loving, what you like in the other, your emotional style. A Venus in Libra loves harmony and beauty in the relationship. A Venus in Scorpio seeks intensity and depth.
Mars
The planet of desire and momentum shows what attracts you. Mars shapes your sexual dynamics, and reveals how you conquer or seduce.
To learn more about planets in love, I invite you to consult the article:
► Behavior in love according to your zodiac sign: what does it really say about you?
House 7
It describes your relationship with couples, the significant other, and sometimes the type of partner you attract or idealize.
Understanding your dualities: these paradoxes that make you seek something you don't really want
All these elements do not operate in isolation.
It is their interaction that creates the richness and complexity of your love landscape.
Sometimes, there are paradoxes: you may have a Moon that wants fusion and a Venus that wants lightness…
Hence some tensions, which only astrology can help you decode with all the visible (and invisible) nuances.
Repetitive patterns: Why do you always live the same love stories?
You may have this feeling of constantly attracting the same types of people.
Reliving this painful scenario over and over… As if something were repeating despite you.
Astrology often brings to light the unconscious patterns related to old wounds.
These love wounds that your natal chart illuminates
Chiron, Saturn, the Black Moon, or Pluto play a key role in this area.
They are planets and points that confront us with our fears, our vulnerabilities, but also our power of transformation.
For example:
If your Venus is in a tense aspect with Saturn, you may feel a blockage in expressing love. A feeling of emotional coldness. Or you may have great difficulty talking about your emotions.
With Pluto, there may be a fear of loss or power dynamics in the relationship. A dominant/submissive relationship that often establishes itself despite you.
These configurations are not a fatality. They invite you to grow.
Why do you experience these types of relationships?
These relationships reveal an invitation to heal, to transform, to break free from repetition.
Recognizing them is already taking back control over your love life.
And then, some encounters come to specifically activate these sensitive areas to "wake you up". Make you aware that you can no longer continue like this.
This is what we call "relational mirrors".
Thanks to synastry (comparison of two charts: yours and that of your partner), we can see what the other awakens in you.
Embarking on this experience is often liberating.
Love, this mirror of your evolution
Love is not just a conclusion. It is a powerful lever for evolution.
Some relationships reveal us to ourselves more than any other experience.
The natal chart shows you where you are in your romantic journey. It also reveals what you are ready to go through or heal. For example:
A transit of Uranus can cause a sudden but necessary breakup to regain your inner freedom.
A passage of Neptune can plunge you into a blurry or idealized relationship, inviting you to re-examine your ability to anchor yourself in reality.
A transit of Pluto can completely upheave your vision of love, to reconnect you to your rawest truth.
These moments are not there to break you, but to help you grow.
Relationships then come as initiatory passages. They are masters as much as partners.
What about soul relationships? Soulmates, twin flames, karmic relationships... Can astrology explain them?
Some encounters change everything. They go through you, shake you, turn you inside out. These are soul connections, and astrology, through romantic compatibility, can reveal very precise signatures. The tools we use for this:
⚭ Synastry, or the superposition of two charts, allows us to observe the connections between two people:
Sun or Moon conjunct karmic points (North/South Node): significant encounter, destiny
Venus/Pluto or Moon/Pluto: transforming passion, magnetic bond hard to break
Neptune/Venus: idealized love or deep spiritual bond
Chiron/Moon or Chiron/Venus: old wounds resurface so you can heal them.
⚭ The composite chart, built from two individual charts, offers a reading of the couple’s soul. It sheds light on the mission of the relationship, what the bond seeks to embody or resolve.
These astrological studies give meaning to extraordinary bonds.
They allow us to understand the dynamics at play in your relationship.
We will obviously cover them in a future article.
In summary
Astrology does not promise you perfect love. But it helps you to come closer to yourself, to better understand what you are experiencing and to make love a path of awareness.
It illuminates your deep needs, reveals the mechanisms that hold you back, and highlights the connections that elevate you.
To love is not always simple.
But to love consciously is already to change the game.
What if you decoded your own love path?
